Thank you for Profile Audit and Bonus Content Suggestions
Thank you for the profile audit! I don't seem to do well with matches on Hinge so I sent in my FB dating one. It makes a lot of sense now why I seem to still be attracting guys that come in too strong sexually. I can see how my photos and words do not align on my profile. And that Stanley picture was very cringe so thank you! haha. I making adjustments to my profile already. Here are some more Bonus Episodes content I am interested in: -More first date questions to gage emotional availability and true intentions. -When to meet close friends and family -Can a FWB turn into a relationship? -Difference between love bombing and genuine interest -Creative first and second date ideas that are low key/Date ideas that go beyond grabbing a drink -Balancing work, friends, alone time, and dating
Did my date trauma dump?
I had a great first date with a guy and within the first 10 minutes he told me one of the reasons he wanted to meet me was because he knew I was into self development since I had mentioned doing therapy. He opened up pretty quickly and talked about a distinct memory from when he was 4 years old and his parents got divorced. He told me about not having a good relationship with his father. Said he didn't mean to trauma dump on me, but felt comfortable with me. He seems very self aware.as he said "I'm just letting you know I am aware of my underlying issues and I'm actively trying to figure it out." I am worried that he may see me as more value than him and try to pull away. He seems disorganized avoidant, but I don't want to "diagnose him." Is this a red flag or green flag? It was one of those dates where we started with a casual pool game, then he wanted to spend more time with me so took me to dinner, then he came back to my place and we chatted more and watched the football game, ended up sleeping together and it was great! There is definitely chemistry and connection.
Being hyper vigilant in dating
Hey Sabrina, could you please do an episode about being super scared of dating after such a long time being single! I feel like whenever I meet somene and it's going well, I'm so anxious and focused on "oh well it's going to end" and it's super hard for me to just enjoy the experience because I start to like the person and think it wont work out